5 Traits That All People Find Attractive

Love and Relationships 4/18/20 [updated: 1/31/23]
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How do you go about choosing someone you’d like to date? Do you decide by the color of their hair or eyes, or maybe their personality or body type?

I’ve often wondered why people I find attractive, other people don’t find attractive at all.

Beauty is absolutely subjective, but here are 5 traits that both men and women find attractive.

1. Kindness

A man handing out supplies to people in need.
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Kindness is a trait that both men and women find incredibly attractive in a mate. I mean, who wants to be with someone who is mean?

Kindness makes you more attractive no matter what you look like. Just remember, someone who is nice to you but mean to a stranger is not a kind person.

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