We are always intrigued by mystery, in whatever form it takes. Whether the mystery is fictional or real, we get absorbed by it because it allows us to focus on something other than our own concerns. We get swept away by our curiosity, and we feel especially accomplished the moment we finally crack the code and make sense of the mystery.
That's why people who appear mysterious seem extra attractive. No one ever knows what they're thinking or going to do next. This unpredictability makes them exciting. But when it comes to hiding their emotions, is it healthy? Well, that depends on the sign. Here is what astrologers say is the most mysterious zodiac sign according to their personality traits.
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Mysterious people are universally exciting. On a psychological level, people tend to love things that appear scarce, or rare because it gives them more value. The harder we have to work for something, the more we want to keep it because we feel like we've earned it.
Now if we were to translate that to people, we seem to trick our minds into thinking that the harder we work to figure out a mysterious person, the more valuable they are.
Whether there is actual value in their mystery depends on the zodiac sign. Sometimes their mystery is caused by their shyness, while other times it's done with a purpose. Here's how to tell the difference.
Cancers are considered to be one of the most mysterious zodiac signs, but they don't do it on purpose. Cancers are empathetic to a fault, and they're constantly overthinking which can be overwhelming. The stress of carrying so much emotion can make them want to hide in their shell away from people.
When Cancers shut down or feel like they have to hide their feelings to protect others or not come off as a burden, while simultaneously carrying the baggage of everyone around them, they can come off as mysterious. They may come off as moody and their ups and downs are unpredictable.
"Cancerians keep their true feelings inside, so you rarely know how they really feel," says Anastasiya Kirilchik, astrologer. However, Cancers eventually break until they can show their true feelings and find a balance between being supportive and empathetic.
Then there are Geminis, who also come off as mysterious, but for a completely different reason. Geminis are naturally extroverted. They love to be the center of attention and bring life to any party they walk into. People gravitate towards their lively personality and quick wit.
However, Geminis are also known for their dualities. They're popular, but few actually know who they really are. It's like they have two personalities and you can never guess which one you'll get.
They can flip on you like a switch, especially if you get on their bad side. One day they're warm and talkative and the next they're cold and quiet. This is the unpredictability that makes them mysterious.
Capricorn is a serious zodiac who is practical and direct. You would think that this means they say exactly what they're thinking. However, they're actually private about their feelings. According to astrologer Anna Kovach "They tend to say what they mean and mean what they say,"
It takes time to express themselves as they take the time to choose their words carefully. The delay in their expression gives them an air of mystery.
The most mysterious zodiac sign award goes to...Aquarius! Aquarius people are calculated and yet unpredictable themselves. They get their power from being kind and understanding which makes it easy for others to confide in them and for them to get information.
They know a lot about everyone, and their impeccable memory makes it easy to recall. Yet when t comes to them, they're hard to understand. They don't explicitly share their thoughts. While this makes them good secret keepers, it makes it hard for anyone to read them or get to know their deeper layer unless they purposely open up.
We're attracted to people who come off as mysterious because we want to control their mystery and understand it. Their mystery makes them harder to read, so we can't tell who they actually are and whether they like us. We don't want to give something or someone power over us by letting the mystery go on for too long.
Mystery can play mind tricks on us as we fill in the blanks with guesses and assumptions. We fixate on what they do to try to understand it. We sometimes confuse mystery with attraction because we obsess over the unknown when we try to solve it.
In any relationship, always look at how you feel and ask yourself: does this person make you love yourself more? Do you want to grow old with them?
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