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7 Reasons Being Single Is The Best Thing That Can Happen To You

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Dating and relationships are fantastic adventures all by themselves, but there seems to be a societal pressure to not be single. There’s nothing wrong with either option.

In both situations, you will grow and connect. That being said, you have more freedom and options when your single.

In any relationship, always look at how you feel and ask yourself: does this person make you love yourself more? Do you want to grow old with them?

Friendships Are Strengthened

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Without the support of your significant other, you seek out aid and comfort through other means. Your friends are natural options for helping you when you need it. All your friends aren’t around all the time or great at every single thing. As a result, you have to call on different pals at different times and about different topics.

There Is Space And Time To Get To Know Yourself

Understanding and appreciating yourself is a crucial marker in your development. It’s easier to do this while you are single. It frees up a lot of your time and makes sure there isn’t someone always trying to pry into your thoughts and motives.

You Are Free To Be Totally Selfish

Being part of a team is great and all but it’s so invigorating to only have to worry about yourself! When you’re single, your life is so much simpler and easy-going. You can pursue what ever you want. Time spent single is best on you; exploring desires, testing boundaries, seeking gratification or broadening perspective.

You Are Free To Travel

Along the lines of you being a free person, when you’re single there is nothing stopping you from seeking grand adventures or wondrous escapes. When you are part of a couple there are some major obstacles, money, schedules, health, and even desire. The only issue is traveling alone can be more dangerous so be careful.

You Learn To Love Yourself

If you can’t love yourself how do you expect someone else to? Love is something that is best practiced, and simpler when it involves only ourselves. If you can attain feelings of enrichment and love while single, you will feel more fulfilled while dating.

No Having To Compromise With Personal Space Or Goals

You don’t have to share your space! You can stretch out on your bed, clean the dishes when you like, or explain anything! It can be good for our confidence to be allowed to roam free. It helps you re-establish your boundaries and comfort zones.

It’s Bound To Happen

Being single isn’t something to be avoided, it also doesn’t have to be an awful experience. Like everything in life, it is what you make it. If you choose, it can be made into a great experience. You will be single a few times in your life, might as well make the most of it!

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