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5 Things To Remember When Dealing With Manipulators

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People who have mastered the art of manipulation are some of the most devious human beings that the world has ever seen.

They will say and do anything to get exactly what they want from you.

They do not care for your emotions, your life, or anything about you that isn’t going to help them get their way.

So it’s important that you learn these comebacks in order to combat these silver tongued evil doers who wish to rob you of something you will miss.

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Another thing to keep in mind is that if you feel as if someone is trying to manipulate you, then it is always relevant to just say no and walk away.

You do not owe them anything or even the time they plan on wasting on you to try and force you to give them what they want.

Do not allow them this opportunity; instead, remove yourself from the situation entirely.

1. Self-Worth

Unsplash / Jackson David
Unsplash / Jackson David

It is important that you recognize your self-worth and what it means to never sell yourself short to someone who is trying to manipulate you. Just by telling them that “I am a person who has value and worth” can demonstrate to them that you are not so easily swayed.

However, you must exude this confidence to them that you are not willing to make any kind of shady deal with them or anything else like it.

2. Establish Boundaries

It is very important that you establish your boundaries with a manipulator.

Just by telling them that you think something is unworthy of your time, or that you do not believe what they are asking from you is a fair favor, you are communicating to them that you are uncomfortable with what they are asking.

A person does not need to over-step a line for something that can be easily obtained. They also cannot just walk all over you in order to get what they want.

3. Your Feelings Are Valid

Don’t let a manipulator belittle you and your emotions. You are more than relevant, especially since this person is trying to deliberately hurt you and what you think.

Telling them that your emotions and your person are just as valid as theirs are, can show that you are not willing to be taken for a ride by them.

If they continue to try and manipulate you, you should consider removing yourself from their presence entirely. Your emotions come first, not theirs.

4. Wait For Them To Calm Down

If a manipulator is coming at you full speed with their horrible intentions, or you can just tell from their demeanor what they want, you can simply say that you will wait for them to calm down before you are willing to listen.

Someone who is forcefully trying to pry things from you without caring for your input is someone who is unwilling to listen or care for your needs and your wants.

In order for them to be an approachable person, they are going to have to calm down first.

5. Just Say No

If all else fails, you can always just say no.

A person who is unwilling to listen to you, talk to you like a normal human being, or even care whether you do or don’t, is someone that has proven they are truly unworthy of your presence and time.

You do not owe this person anything, and the fact that they feel as if they can pry something from you through manipulation just proves how toxic a person they really are.

Just say no, tell them you are sorry you couldn’t help, and leave them to ponder who else they can try to manipulate instead of you.

Hopefully this has prepared you for other toxic human beings who are trying to manipulate in order to get things that they want.

Even if it’s someone you deeply care about and want to help, you are going to have to let them learn things the hard way.

There is no helping a manipulator since they are not wanting your help to begin with.

Are you still searching for your life purpose? You won’t believe what the science of Numerology can reveal about you!

That’s right, the numerology of your birth date, regardless of what month you were born, can reveal surprising information about your personality.

Unlock the messages hidden in your Personality Code now with your free personalized video report!

Click HERE to learn what Numerology says about your life using only your Name and Birth Date.

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