9 Traits Of Real People Who Can’t Be Faked, Fooled, Or Swayed
People who can't be faked are incredibly self-aware and grounded, making them difficult to fool, manipulate, or sway. These qualities aren't about power or ego but instead about living authentically, never giving up parts of themselves for anyone else.
They both forge ahead with a strong sense of confidence and ward away anyone who seeks to derail them. But can just anyone learn this level of faith in themselves?
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Sure And Steady
It takes a unique kind of strength to be truly unshakeable, a confidence that comes from deep within, a deep and innate security one can have within oneself. Eventually, they become so confident and grounded that not only do they move through life with more certainty, but they can also spot when someone else is trying to undermine their work. They simply cannot be faked.
But what does that actually look like? What traits do these kinds of people have?
1. They Know Themselves Deeply
People who can't be faked are in touch with who they are, their values, likes, dislikes, strengths, and weaknesses. They've done the work to understand themselves, so they’re not easily influenced or shaken by what others think or say. They won’t pretend to be someone they’re not because they’re comfortable with themselves.
Their inner compass is their sole guide, making it easy to spot when someone is trying to steer them in a direction that doesn't feel right.
2. They Set Healthy Boundaries
A key trait of someone who can't be faked is their ability to set and uphold boundaries. They greatly respect their own time, energy, and needs, and they don't hesitate to communicate these to others. They know when to say "no" and are comfortable doing it without guilt. They also often push their friends to do the same as they know the value of this skill.
This confidence and certainty keeps them grounded, and others quickly understand they can't be manipulated or pushed beyond what feels right for them.
3. They're Comfortable With Silence
People who are comfortable in their own skin don’t mind silence, solitude, or stillness. They aren’t always trying to fill the gaps with words or noise, and they don’t need constant validation or entertainment. This comfort with silence reflects a calm, self-assured nature, proving that they're comfortable spending time alone with their own mind and don't need a constant distraction to stay sane.
It also means they don’t feel the need to seek approval, which can be intimidating to those who thrive on attention like someone who tries to fake others would be.
4. They Don't Seek Constant Validation
Speaking of, those who truly know their worth aren’t chasing compliments, likes, or validation from others. They don’t rely on external sources to feel good about themselves because they’re already confident in who they are. This doesn’t mean they don’t enjoy positive feedback; they do! We all do! But they don’t need it to feel whole. That's the difference.
People like this aren’t easily swayed by others’ opinions because they're already so sure of themselves, making it difficult for anyone to manipulate or flatter their way into their lives.
5. They Take Responsibility For Their Actions
Self-aware and self-assured people own up to their mistakes. They don't pass blame or make excuses. When they mess up, they admit it, apologize, and work to make it right. They're also very honest about their shortcomings and aware of what they need to work on to become a better person.
This integrity strengthens their relationships and only adds to their unshakable confidence. They’re honest with themselves, which makes it easier to be honest with others, creating a circle of trust that cannot be broken with dishonesty.
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6. They Don't Fear Being Vulnerable
A unique strength of people who can’t be faked is that they’re okay with vulnerability. They’re not afraid to share their honest feelings or admit when they’re struggling, thus encouraging their loved ones to do the same. This openness not only improves their relationships but also disarms those who come at them from a dishonest angle.
Vulnerability doesn’t mean weakness to them; it’s simply a part of being human. By embracing their own vulnerabilities, they make it easier for others to be real with them, and people respect them for it.
7. They Trust Their Own Judgment
People with unshakable confidence know how to trust their instincts, impulses, and decisions. They don't constantly second-guess themselves or look to others to make choices for them. This doesn’t mean they’re stubborn or don’t take advice; they’re usually very open to other perspectives, but they ultimately rely on their own knowledge to get through tough situations.
They know their priorities and aren’t easily influenced to stray from their path, so people can’t steer them off course. Not without good reason.
8. They're Consistently Kind
True confidence isn’t loud or boastful; it’s based on kindness and respect. People who are comfortable with themselves don’t need to put others down to feel better or to prove themselves. They treat everyone with respect, from strangers to close friends. Their kindness is consistent, and it’s not an act they turn on and off; it’s just who they are.
This consistency makes it easy to see when someone else isn’t being genuine because they’ve learned that true strength and confidence come from treating others well.
9. They're Quick To Spot Fakers
And finally, plainly put, people who are true to themselves can just sniff out liars and tricksters more easily. When you’re deeply connected to your own values and truth, you naturally become more aware of when others aren’t being genuine. These types of people can pick up on every subtle cue, inconsistency, and non-verbal sign that someone is trying to get the better of them.
They see through flattery, manipulation, and any attempt to impress them with empty words. Their intuition helps them sense when something feels "off," and they trust it, making it hard for anyone to fake or deceive them.
Building Confidence
People who embody these traits have a quiet strength that's hard to replicate. They’re not driven by ego or a need to impress; instead, they’re guided by a deep sense of self-awareness and integrity. Their lives are simpler and more fulfilling because they don’t waste energy pretending or seeking approval.
However, this is a skill that can be learned. Believe in yourself, have faith in your path, and embrace your mistakes so you feel good about fixing them. In a world where many put on masks, these types of people remind us of the power of being true to oneself.
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