8 Traits That Make You An Insufferable Diva
There's nothing wrong with wanting a bit of drama in your life, a bit of cattiness or attitude at times. It keeps things fun! We shouldn't shy away from periodic moments of fun just to appear virtuous. However, there's definitely a line wherein that bitterness goes too far and starts to take over.
Being a diva sounds fun in name but, in reality, only serves to isolate us and continuously foster more bitterness in our lives. There are ways to step away from diva behavior though, ways to open ourselves up to happier, more fulfilling lives.
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Doing Too Much
Being confident and assertive is a valuable trait, but there is a fine line between self-assuredness and diva-like behavior. Recognizing this distinction is vital, for if you're not careful, too much diva behavior can wind up driving people away.
If you've ever been called out for being overly dramatic, self-centered, or disrespectful, it might be time to look inward and see if your actions classify as diva-like. Here, we'll cover a number of traits that can classify someone as a truly unbearable diva and what you can do to rid yourself of them.
1. You Expect The World To Revolve Around You
One of the most glaring signs you're an unbearable diva is expecting everyone to cater to your needs and whims. Maybe you constantly demand attention, directly or indirectly, and then get upset when others don’t prioritize you. This self-centered behavior is exhausting for those around you, putting a major strain on your relationships and making it difficult for people to connect with you on a genuine level.
It’s important to understand that everyone has their own lives, lives full of stress, joy, sorrow, excitement, all things that will inevitably take their eyes off you. You can't be in the spotlight all of the time. You need to learn how to share the focus and uplift the going-ons of others.
2. You Have Zero Tolerance For Imperfections
If you constantly criticize others for their flaws and mistakes, you're definitely within diva territory. This behavior can create a toxic environment where people feel judged for the littlest things, putting them on edge all the time when they're around you.
It’s important to remember that nobody is perfect, including yourself. Acknowledging your own imperfections, faults, and areas where you could grow can help you become more accepting of others and sympathetic to their struggles. Instead of focusing on imperfections, try to practice appreciating the strengths and positive qualities of those around you. This shift in perspective can improve your relationships and make you generally more approachable.
3. You Thrive On Drama And Conflict
Do you find yourself always involved in conflicts and drama? Or, if you're not, are you seeking it out, using other peoples' drama as entertainment? This is a sure sign of diva behavior. Thriving on other peoples' issues causes unnecessary stress and tension in not just your life but the lives of the people around you. Drama is exciting, yes, but you shouldn't be hoping for bad things to happen just so you can have something to watch.
Instead of feeding into mentalities like these, try reaching out to help solve issues when they arise. You'll find that peace, while more 'boring' in a way, is far more fulfilling in the long run.
4. You Demand Special Treatment
Another sign you're an unbearable diva is expecting special treatment and privileges, even in mundane situations. You might feel entitled to preferential treatment, extra praise for less effort, or always being prioritized. This sense of entitlement can stem from a number of reasons, but all it really does is make other people uncomfortable
No one is especially entitled to special treatment, favors, or otherwise, no matter what amount of good they've done. The cure to this mindset involves a lot of humbling yourself but also learning about and embracing the histories, perspectives, intricacies, and lives of other people. We all stem from the same root, just in different ways.
5. You're Unwilling To Compromise
Being unwilling to compromise is a classic diva trait. If you always insist on having things your way and refuse to consider other options, you're only going to start fights. This rigid mindset can and will prevent you from collaborating with others healthily, which means putting your relationships at risk.
Flexibility and compromise are important in all social settings, and being flexible will endear others to you. Try to be more open to different viewpoints and find common ground. Show that you're willing to adapt, even when it's stressful. You'll learn a lot more about life that way.
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6. You're Inconsiderate Of Others' Time
Being inconsiderate of others’ time is another sign you might be a truly unbearable diva. If you frequently show up late or expect others to drop everything for you, it comes across as disrespectful and inconsiderate. This lack of consideration makes people hesitant to rely on you or, sometimes, invite you anywhere at all.
Respecting others’ time is a basic trait that's crucial to any relationship. Make an effort to be punctual and considerate of other people’s schedules. This respect can go a long way, as it proves that you value their presence and want to make things work for them, not just yourself.
7. You Hold Grudges And Refuse To Forgive
Holding grudges and refusing to forgive are telltale signs of a diva personality. This unwillingness to let go of the past can create a toxic atmosphere for anyone in your close circle. Not to mention that it also hinders your personal growth, as holding onto negative emotions can prevent you from experiencing moments of joy in the future.
Letting go of grudges and practicing forgiveness can be incredibly hard, but also incredibly healing. It allows you to move forward and create space for more positive experiences, reactions, and relationships. Embrace forgiveness and let go of past hurts for a healthier, happier life. Free yourself from the burden of your grudges and feel a weight lift off your shoulders.
8. You Constantly Seek Validation
If you're always seeking validation and approval from others, it’s a sometimes hidden sign of diva behavior. That's where a lot of diva traits stem from, really. Attention seeking, wanting special treatment, holding onto negative feelings, they all come from a place of wanting to be told that you're good, you're right, you're okay.
True confidence comes from within. You don't need other people to grant you worth. Try focusing on building your self-esteem by being more independent, speaking good about yourself (in a way that doesn't put yourself on a pedestal), and trusting in your abilities. Over time, you'll become more naturally confident, no longer relying on validation from others to feel whole.
Peace Waits For You
Recognizing the signs you're this type of diva is the first step towards positive change. By addressing these traits and adopting a more empathetic, respectful, and flexible approach to life, you can improve in so many areas. Your relationships will be healthier, your mind more at peace, and, most importantly, you'll be happier.
It will be a big change and one that will take a while, but personal growth is always an ongoing process. By committing to positive change, you open so many doors you don't even know are closed when you cling to bitterness and catty attitudes. There's more out there for you. You have the power to go find it.
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