5 Things That Parents Of Successful Children Do

1. They Teach Persistence

Children are always watching, they look to their parents to know how to live, how to navigate the world around them, modeling their behavior. That's why it's so important that parents set good examples by performing tasks the way they would want their children to do them when they grow up.

Researchers at the University of Pennsylvania and the Massachusetts Institute of Technology looked at how over 500 children aged around four or five years old persisted and how much effort they'd put into a task after watching an adult do it. Results showed that the children who watched an adult persist, work hard, and express the importance of working hard all stuck with the task longer, even when things became difficult.

2. They're Involved In Their Child's Learning

A team in England conducted a study where they interviewed academic experts and looked at other recent studies on the relationship between a parent's engagement with their child's learning and the academic success of that child.

All of these sources, when collected and analyzed as a whole, showed that parents being actively involved in their child's learning helps that child immensely to succeed in school later on. When the child is young, this can look like reading to them, listening to them read, and helping them learn core lessons like the alphabet. When the child is older, this can look like parental involvement in field trips, monitoring how their kids are doing with schoolwork (in a friendly manner, offering to help if needed), and showing a genuine interest in their school activities.

3. They Help Strengthen Their Attention Span

Many people are easily distracted, we all have varying attention spans that can be impacted by a number of factors, but strengthening that attention span is something parents can help their children with early in life.

Stanford psychology expert Nir Eyal says that becoming "indistractable" is one of the most important skills that young people now will need in the years to come. He believes that limiting screen time is an easy and effective way that parents can help prevent the shortening of their child's attention span, but you need to inform them of why you're doing it. Another important factor is letting the child set their own limits. You want them to feel like they're in control of the decision. By respecting their input, they'll feel less like this is a punishment and thus won't be as upset about the choice.

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4. They Prioritize The Mother's Happiness

This sounds pretty different from the other tips thus far that have focused on the relationship between parent and child, but it's true that happier moms help children achieve academic success at a higher rate.

Researchers from the Marriage Foundation and the University of Lincoln examined the data from the Millennium Cohort study, a long-term survey of 13,000 couples with a child born in 2000 or 2001. They assessed the couples' relationship satisfaction when their child was nine months old, then revisited them 14 years later. The study found that the happiness of mothers greatly influenced various outcomes compared to fathers. For instance, a mother's happiness was twice as impactful as the father's in predicting whether the couple would remain together and in determining mental health issues in boys. Similarly, only the mother's happiness was correlated with mental health problems in teenage girls.

5. They Enroll Their Child In Music Lessons

Lastly, the simplest and most straightforward entry is enrolling their child in music lessons. Research from the University of Georgia and the University of Alabama looked at over 2,300 parents of children aged seven to 17 who were currently enrolled in music lessons. Parents reported a number of ways that these lessons helped their kids' development.

Around 85% felt that the lessons improved their child's patience, 68% felt the lessons improved their child's time management and organizational skills, 83% felt the lessons helped their child be more self-aware, and 71% felt that the lessons helped their child with their task prioritization and lowered screen time.

Growing Older, Stronger

There's no way to guarantee 100% success for your child without question, but promoting healthy habits and helping them develop important skills is a pretty close second. Even beyond the potential future yields, traits like the ones listed here are valuable for navigating everyday life, meaning your children will feel more secure and confident simply for having them.

Parenting is a constant balancing act of knowing what may help and what may hinder your child. In knowing where to start with promoting positive habits, new parents can build a foundation for their child that they feel confident in, then let love lead them the rest of the way.

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